
According to Gallup’s latest research, here’s what’s actually driving employees out the door — and why many leaders still don’t see it...

One of my favourite pieces of research is the finding that people giving advice are more likely to change their behaviour than those receiving it. This is because the person giving advice is actually thinking about it and processing the information at a deeper level. The person receiving the advice is just hearing it. And as well know, most of what we hear we forget. Harvard Business Review nails it: Great advice isn’t a monologue — it’s a brainstorm.You don’t need to be a guru. You need to be a collaborator. Start Doing This:

This is a fascinating study tracking people's will power and wellbeing over time. Increases in well being preceded increases in will power rather than vice versa! A summary of the article can be found here. Often when I am asked to coach someone it is because they can't see their way out of their current situation - and that's leading them to be stressed. After we establish where they want to get to we then look at where they are currently - this often includes poor wellbeing. I start them off on a few basic things to improve their self care. When we catch up the next time they have had some wins on the self care front and are feeling better about their problem as well. I always thought that the process of them getting some small wins created a positive impact that started to help them see they can control more than they realised (getting them into the influence part of the circle of influence). Based on this research, perhaps their self control/will power also improves with increases in wellbeing? So how do we make some changes to improve our wellbeing without having willpower! The answer is start with something so small that your brain can't talk you out of it. Here's a short video on forming habits - the domino's analogy is a great way of thinking about achieving big goals by starting really small! We also need to have something to remind us to do it. The Power of habit cue, routine and reward is a great way of kick starting a new habit and having the tools to make changes.

A recent communication blog from the Glasers, they reminded us of the power of listening to improve employee well being. Rosalind Chow in Inc pointed out that only 20% of employees typically participate in wellbeing programmes. Rosalind suggested making listening a habit through:

We recently had the pleasure of hosting a number of our amazing clients at our very first Strategic People Group breakfast event. As Organisational Psychologists, this topic is one we hold particularly close to our hearts: How Psychology Can Improve Leadership.
We’re proud to share that SPG has recently passed a significant milestone — working with over 1,600 leaders across 34 organisations. It has been a privilege to play a part in developing leaders at all levels, and our breakfast session captured some of the insights we believe matter most for the future of leadership.
We explored why strengths matter now more than ever in a world that continues to grow in complexity and volatility. As Gilbert Enoka so perfectly puts it:
“Leadership… it’s not about you, but it’s all about you.”
In dynamic contexts, leaders are required to be both humble and open, while simultaneously providing the confidence, stability and direction their people need to navigate uncertainty. That's a tough psychologically! Strengths and purpose act as anchors — enabling leaders to show just enough vulnerability to bring warmth to relationships, while still demonstrating credibility. Together, warmth and credibility account for 80% of the judgments people make about us, and may well be at the heart of what we think of as “charisma”.
Our guests left with some reflective homework, and we hope they’re already completed that!
As we look back on the year that’s been, we want to again thank our wonderful clients — many of whom have become friends — for your ongoing support and partnership. We genuinely love working alongside you to make things better: for you as leaders, for your teams, and for your organisations.
Wishing you all a safe and restful Christmas and New Year break
Nga mihi,
Andrea, John and Tara